For Buddy: When My Cynicism Meets Your Optimism

We are both right, you know:

These sandcastles could be our homes.

I would be among the ones to tell you: no,

They will erode - 

These dreams you build, the people you help,

the audacity of hope.

Join us on the jaded side of history,

the one that few acknowledge 

and most simply ignore.

Why else does science mock uncertainty,

And insist we not explore?

Have you not bled the same color as the rest of us?

But what makes you humbling to me:

you keep building dreams in your sandbox,

As if the world were your playground,

As if vacationing at the beach.

Maybe sometimes it isn’t easy for you,

To keep the momentum around,

To sustain the young-at-heart reach.

You’re better at it than I am, though,

And the goal is much more profound

and people much colder, each:

See the spite of selfish spirit,

Face their fury, even fear it,

Feel the ubiquity of pain;

Yet insist on imagined play.

Waves may wash away your towers,

Other kids deny your power,

Most lose childhood to the fray,

Insist again on healing play.

What else will occupy our days

After all sorrow is erased?

When our awkward hate is snatched away;

We will know how god is God of Play.

After all our disenchanted disbelief,

after every jaded bitter grief,

when death alone remains for us to meet,

isn’t it only children

He will greet?

Mae's Birthday Sleepover

Happy Birthday Mae! Can’t believe you’re 7 now!!!

Wally and Wes

Wesley’s Birthday sleepover!

That time it started snowing during Kyle's Birthday Party!

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Wally & Wes Wear Stripes

<3 These guys.

10 years since you walked me home from school

To  befriend someone is to become acquainted with their mind. To agree to walk side by side with their sentiments and keep beseeching, "show me". To search out their thoughts and see what trails they've wandered and which ones they've avoided. It's to become familiar with the places they say seem dark and impenetrable, and to patiently say, "I see that darkness, I have darkness too." It's to move with them — speeding at their speed and slowing at their slow. It's sitting quiet and still at the edges of their cerebral and emotional maps and dreaming together that the page could continue, perhaps. It's apologizing when you trip over the roots that have overgrown some paths. It's marveling at all the landscapes you discover in your friend.

If falling in love is free-falling down in an unexpected and destined ecstasy, becoming friends is the intentional sweaty trudge up a mountain for a view few live to see.

Not one day have I ever regretted our climb towards friendship. Not one day have I lamented traversing your mind — first.

I say rather to those just getting started, if you're going to fall in love, do it on a mountain top, like I did.

Huddle against the hurtling chill

the freezer breeze brings its own kind

of charm,

candles in the night

early dark and slower Dawn

Christmas, cinnamon, steam

and all the hope we need to carry on.

Little Wallybug

When I was little my mom called me and my siblings “wallerbugs” when we couldn’t sit still and would move all over the place on her lap. These days, I’m starting to think that’s a great little name for one of my favorite nephews, since every time he sees Wesley, he wallers all over him with affection and cuddles.

The Swing By Robert Louis Stevenson

How do you like to go up in a swing, 
  Up in the air so blue? 
Oh, I do think it the pleasantest thing 
Ever a child can do! 

Up in the air and over the wall, 
Till I can see so wide, 
Rivers and trees and cattle and all 
Over the countryside— 

Till I look down on the garden green, 
Down on the roof so brown— 
Up in the air I go flying again, 
Up in the air and down!

Pepper’s photobomb on the slide! 😂

Our little pumpkins

Wesley & Walter. One of the best things about growing up and having kids is getting to have fun with other people who are growing up and having kids.